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CarePower®
leads to JOY for both the caregiver and the customer. Read this
story, written by a hospital employee, and see how a patient
encounter under trying circumstances led to meaningful
self-discovery for both.
Every day, I remind myself why I do this job. Some days seem
more of a challenge than other days. The other day I had one of
those days where you
reach your limit emotionally. I forgot about all the reasons I
have been doing
this job for nearly 30 years.
I spent the day after trying to improve my spirit. An elderly
lady came up to my desk obviously upset. She threw her credit
card down. Reluctantly, I told her we could only take cash or
checks (at this location). I was not helping her with this news.
Then she asked how she could get to the Orthopedic Center. I
tried explaining directions but could see that she was becoming
increasingly
frustrated. I told her I would be happy to show her the way.
As we rode the elevator, she leaned against the wall with her
head down and shoulders slumped. She said, "I never knew being
old and alone would be so hard." Her words tore at my heart.
"I'm sorry," I said. "I know that sometimes when you grow old
you can become invisible to others."
She looked at me for the first time and said, "How did you know
that? Thank you so much for understanding how I feel." When we
got off the elevator, I saw her confusion and decided to take
her all the way myself. Hand-in-hand we walked to our
destination. She said no one had ever treated her so kindly. I
told her I hoped that if my mother was lost and alone, that
someone would help show her the way.
As we walked I felt my spirit being renewed. She asked if an
"old lady" could give me a kiss on the cheek. As we hugged she
thanked me again for being kind and helping her. Little did she
know it was she who helped me.
I needed that connection with someone who felt as disillusioned
as I did.
Maybe, for different reasons, but nonetheless, we found each
other that day and
helped each other to restore our faith in human kindness.
What a difference a day makes.
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